Reader,

When I look at this photo taken 9 years ago ⬇️, I remember the day that I didn't go to work.

I went to the lake with my dad instead.

I never did anything like this because I *always* felt guilty taking time off from work. But...

It was a beautiful, perfect boat day.

Not a cloud in the sky.

Calm winds.

Temps in the mid 70s.

Basically, it was the kind of day that you shouldn't be sitting in a windowless office.

I have great memories (and photos and videos) from that day spent with my dad.

I can hear his laughter. I can see me holding on to dear life as we were speeding along at 85 MPH in his new boat.

We had no clue about the bad times coming our way.

That 7 months later, I'd have to call 911 when I found my dad unresponsive.

That 11 months later, I’d be living with my dad, caring for him while I was juggling a full-time job.

That 13 months later, my dad would pass away.

I know now more than ever so many of us are under immense pressure at work.

But I don’t want you to feel guilty for taking care of you (or your family).

Now on every February 20, I think about the lake day with my dad, and I smile (and cry) remembering the fun day we had.

So, my advice to you is this...

Using your vacation days DOES NOT make you a bad employee.

Need a mental health day? Take it!

Need a staycation? Take it!

Need to go on a trip that you’ve been putting off for forever? Take it!

Need a day to be with loved ones? Take it!

Whatever is on your to-do list at work will be waiting for you upon your return.

Hit reply and let me know... what do you want to do on your next vacation day? When are you going to take it?

Michele Dye, M.A.
​Founder of Dyenamic Careers